Needy Is Never Attractive
“You're a needy girl, I can tell when I look in your big brown eyes. You want my world, but how can I do yours if I can't do mine? …It's all about what you want, what you say, how you feel, how you play the game. You're a needy girl, and you want my world. I try to change, knowing it's not the same. (Phone conversation) "Hello? Hey what's up baby? Yeah, I'm in the studio right now, I'll call you later. Nah, I really can't talk right now, I'll just call you back, alright? I-I can't talk right now, I'll just call you later. Yo, what? Yo, I can't, look.. Yo, whatever!" Chromeo, Needy Girl (2004) Needy isn’t attractive. And yes, when we are feeling needy, someone can look into our big brown eyes and see the neediness. We project it. We project insecurity, emotional and physical deprivation, desperation, anxiety and the intense need for immediate gratification. We may even look like an extremely distrau...