Soulshine

“The basic truth about you is ‘I am loveable.’ Everybody’s basic truth is ‘I am loveable.” Robert Holden, Loveability For many codependents the very basic truth of “I am loveable” is extremely hard to swallow. Seems odd doesn’t it? We all want love, we all want to be loved and yet we don’t want to believe or to admit that we are indeed loveable. It’s self-sabotage beyond comprehension. So how do we end our denial about our personal Loveability and come to accept it? We return to our baby face. Babies are natural. They don’t do anything to be loveable. In fact they do a lot of things that we don’t find loveable—like spitting up, pooping on themselves and screaming at 3:00 AM—and yet we still think they are adorable. Why is that? Well, it has to do with how deep-down inside of ourselves we truly define loveable. Babies are loveable, despite their behavior, because deep-down inside of ourselves we define loveable in terms of being and not doing. Real love looks beyon...

Here is a new prayer that I've written. I hope it helps you to "flow" freely with life by letting go of your need to control life. The flow of the Universe is natural and life-affirming I am an essential part of the universal flow I free myself to flow forward in every positive way I free myself of all self-imposed constraints I let go of all demands, expectations and assumptions And I flow with the Universe in my rightful place And I flow with love, peace and purpose And all is as it should be, all is well. Amen.