Morning Prayer



Here is a new prayer that I've written. I hope it helps you to "flow" freely with life by letting go of your need to control life.

The flow of the Universe is natural and life-affirming
I am an essential part of the universal flow
I free myself to flow forward in every positive way
I free myself of all self-imposed constraints
I let go of all demands, expectations and assumptions
And I flow with the Universe in my rightful place
And I flow with love, peace and purpose
And all is as it should be, all is well.
Amen.

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